Positioning as a Victim

Positioning as a Victim

When you position as the victim, you might feel like you’re walking on eggshells with your children.  You aren’t able to take care of yourself and set healthy personal boundaries, because it feels so uncomfortable. Your children are going to have feelings about...
Parenting as a Practice

Parenting as a Practice

In order to embrace parenting as a path of discovery, we must face our fear of the unknown. If we are afraid of discovering the truth about ourselves, we will focus our attention on controlling our children. When we try to change our child, we are avoiding the deepest...
Honoring the Child

Honoring the Child

It’s hard to honor your child if you weren’t honored in your own family.  As a child, your parents may not have been able to receive you as your full self. Instead, they would pick and choose which parts of you made them comfortable.  When I became a parent, I carried...