Emotional blackmailing…whew sounds ominous! Right? And I’m the first to admit that I participate in this dynamic in my relationships #cringe. It’s what I do when I’m not setting healthy boundaries about how I treat myself- like we talked about in the last blog. If...
Hello Loves! We’ve been working through some of the deeper feelings that drive your behavior in parenting over the last few blogs. We moved through cooperation versus compliance. Last week we talked about the energetics of rage and how when that rage arises inside of...
I remember the first time I met the voice of the younger more vulnerable one in me. My kiddos had finally made it through bedtime routine and were tucked in their beds. The ones that needed my closeness to drift off were sleeping hard enough that I could slip out from...
It is part of the human condition that children need connection, both physically and emotionally, with their caregiver. As a babe- your life depended on it. Love was the greatest commodity. If you couldn’t connect as yourself- at some point you most likely developed...
I used to worry a lot! About how everything was going to work out for my kiddos – for their best, of course- because I love them so much! The funny thing about it is that when I got worried- I would barge into their experience with judgement and concern-...
What if you aren’t raising kids- as much as creating an environment of emotional safety around them that supports them growing into the brilliant human being they are becoming in this life? My son is 18. He says to me every now and then of his siblings- ‘you would...
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