When you position as the victim, you might feel like you’re walking on eggshells with your children. You aren’t able to take care of yourself and set healthy personal boundaries, because it feels so uncomfortable. Your children are going to have feelings about...
As a child, you were a victim of your parents limitations. When you weren’t able to get your needs met you couldn’t just walk out and get new parents or say, “this isn’t working for me.” When trying to express yourself, in ways that your parents deemed...
The definition I align with for emotional safety is: “In psychology, emotional safety refers to an emotional state achieved in attachment relationships wherein each individual is open and vulnerable.” In my parenting, I made a commitment to put my eggs in...
Are you afraid to ask for what you want? As a child when you asked were you told you wanted too much or your parent expected you not to ask because they didn’t want to set their personal boundary? I learned to NOT ASK which meant I became self-reliant and...
Have you ever felt a BIG nudge and knew it was time to jump into the water even though you resisted like CRAZY? I’ve felt this countless times in my parenting and often found it easier to resist and create a million reasons to stay with the norm rather...
How many times have you heard children need limits and boundaries? If you are a mom, like me, probably a million times, right? I heard it countless times from friends, family, experts and most often on the internet. Yet it never rang true, so I began a deep...
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